{{DONE}} chunky knit warm beanie for the winter
Most people think of chance as ephemeral, as something that can't be harnessed but they're wrong. Chance increases in proportion how open, accessible, and 'out there' you are. Let the other find you
The term 'out there' frustrates me occassionally. It's a short phrase for a seemingly endless activity: talking meeting talking meeting. In my experience a key aspect of this paying interesting dividends has always been breaking out of a rut.
OK bear with me, is the trick to being cool just to devalue everything? That sounds dangerously close to apathy
As much as it pains me to say I think this actually relates to some of the points in Book/Models. Emotional equanimity and a Lack of neediness are the goal. You can be impressed by someone while being secure in your own self image and self worth. The other person can't challenge your sense of worth or self
Falling head over heels into dopamine
Falling head first into dopamine