I don't think you can really dictate how someone loves you. I guess you can to a small degree but at some point you have to just see how they love you and decide whether or not to participate. Yeah communicating love languages is important and as you know someone longer they can become more attuned to those but at a base level they're not always going to be cognizant of those needs. You have to see the ways they innately show affection in the same way that working to notice the small beautiful moments in the world around you can {{or:immeasurably sweeten those moments | sweeten the whole | ground you to the world | strengthen your sense of self | immeasurably heighten}}
questions How do you conceptualize attractiveness?
Been thinking about this some but haven't quite been able to articulate the different ways of parsing this. Seems to me that at a surface level it is perceived additively (you are x attractive, wearing fitting clothes you are comfortable adds X+1 to that, etc)
At a certain point you stop seeing a person for the things on them but the things in them. I look at some of my longest friends and see the fuzzy concept of 'them' of who they are and less how their hair is today or the color of their eyes. Some intangible representation of our shared history and their emotional state when we lock eyes not the color of them
the fucking invisible self...
Resources::
The beauty of being seen new vs being known
Shakespearian description Generator
Subject + verb + body part + conjunction + innocent activity
It's like he is slotting things under certain subjects from contradicting and congruent frames
630 son will be in 1H (on the 19 side)
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Cool Blue Cabinet
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