So Person/The Grand Margie gave me a call around Christmas that I'm still thinking about. She called me randomly in the evening a few days after we had spent and afternoon hanging out. Since that day she couldn't stop thinking about how bad she thought she looked and was feeling very down about it. She said that at this point she had lost everything about her appearance that she liked as a younger woman. Her waist, her face, her hair she all viewed as gone. I've been thinking about that call for a solid month.